WHY MEN ALWAYS ASK YOU FOR SEX.
I want to change some ladies' mindset today.
You see, men are not dogs. Not all of them are
mad. They are not all sex maniacs that once
they see you, they descend on you and finish up
before you could open your mouth and say no.
Not all the men on the street wants to get into
your pants. I'm going to be real and down to
earth with this article.
The way some ladies complain men are always
asking them for sex really baffles me. Why sex,
why not marriage proposal? Why do men always
want to sleep with you? Why is it that every
single guy who asks you out is always hitting you
for sex? Why won't they marry you unless they
have a taste of the forbidden fruit? What is the
problem because this is a big problem! It is not
something to be proud of, if all what men see
about you is your body and nothing more. It is a
cause for alarm!
1. CHECK YOUR DRESSING:
A female's body means nothing to her. You are
used to seeing your breasts and every soft body
part all your life. It doesn't mean a thing to you
but to guys it means the universe! Men are
moved by sight. Wearing armless (exposing your
shaved armpit and upper arm) can turn a man on
talk less of the low neckline exposing the
cleavage of your breasts. Tight trousers, tights
(panty hose) which shows the shape of your
buttock, mini and micro mini skirts exposing your
thigh all can make a man go wild! Better face
reality now and mind the way you dress.
2. LEARN HOW TO SIT:
Some ladies don't know how to sit. Especially
the skirt wearing sisters. You sit in front of a guy
and open your laps, what do you want him to
see? A trance? Yeah, he saw a lot of it! Always
close your thigh when you are sitting whether in
front of a guy or not. Not sitting very well can
become a habit and follow you around. And you
wonder why all the brothers in the church wants
to sleep with you!
3. YOU TOUCH MEN A LOT:
Ladies who touch, hug and wrap themselves
around guys are sexual magnets to sexually
immature guys. Why are you always hugging and
pecking, for what? Can't you talk without
touching, holding and hugging someone? Some
even sit on their "friend's" lap and say it doesn't
matter. He is just a brother in Christ. He would
soon be a lover in bed. Learn to control your
emotions around the opposite sex. If you must
hug, go look for your fellow lady to hug and peck
and you still need to be careful. Lesbians are all
over the place!
4. CALLING MEN PET NAMES:
Some people just throw around the word "dear"
as if it is a second language! Why would you
give all the guys in your life pet names? You say,
"thanks dear," "okay sweetie", "see you dearie",
"bye love", etc., you are looking for serious
trouble. Words like this turns a man on.
5. YOU PRAISE MEN TOO MUCH:
This shouldn't be a problem at all but experience
has taught me that men are attracted and
eventually turned on by women who praise them
silly! You can compliment men if you want to but
be discreet and casual about it. Don't over do
anything. Telling a guy, "whao! what a nice
moustache you've got!" or that "muscle on your
arm can make any lady go crazy for you" is
indirectly telling him you like his body and
wouldn't mind if he sleeps with you
6. YOU SEDUCE MEN: Here, you deliberately
wear provocative dresses with the intention to
turn him on. You want to see whether you are
sexually admirable to him and want to see how
far he can respond to your seduction. You don't
need that test at all. Men are turned on by
women whether you seduce him or not. A
woman's body is built to turn a man on. I really
get worried when I see these pictures. You can't
have my comments when you post such.
7. YOU POST SEDUCTIVE PICTURES ON THE
SOCIAL MEDIA:
When I see the way some ladies pose on
facebook, I wonder what they are really looking
for. Why posting? Do you want him to kiss you?
Why turn your buttock to the camera? Do you
want him to see how big it is? Why focus on your
chest? Do you want him to know you have firm
breasts? What is the purpose of the purpose of
the pictures you are posting?
8. YOU ALWAYS MEET YOUR PARTNER IN DARK
AND LONELY PLACES.
Lobatan! Sex has finished its mission. Sex loves
dark and lonely places. Wait, why are you always
avoiding the public? You want to talk? Can't you
still be around people and stay out of ear shot?
What are you talking about that we must not
hear? Send a text message or write a letter. You
don't need to hide in darkness to express your
heart.
9. YOU SLEEP AT YOUR FIANCE'S HOUSE:
Why are you in a hurry to sleep under the same
roof with a man? Why are you in a hurry? What is
your problem? Some ladies can't wait for a man
to propose. They pack their bags and move to
his house immediately. For what? And when that
one gets tired of the sex, he sends them packing
and we are here listening to all their tales of
woe! Some don't even expect their man to ask
for sex. Aaah? Show me a monkey who doesn't
jump at every sight if banana.
10. YOU EXPECT MEN TO ASK FOR SEX:
Some ladies think because they are exceptionally
beautiful, men will always ask for sex so it's not
really their fault that they sleep around.
That is a big lie from the pit of hell!
You need to work on your mind. Thinking all men
will die for you because you have a hot body is
crap! Not all men lose their senses when they
see a woman with seductive body. All
irresponsible, immature, abusers and users do
get attracted to her anyway. Mature, godly men
don't get their brain twisted on sporting that type
of woman.
Watch what you wear, how you sit, where you go
and the way you behave around men. A virtuous
lady dresses well to cover her body and
comports herself maturely around men. You will
be addressed the way you dress. If they are
always asking you for sex....,Check what is
wrong and fix it. God bless you.. Share if it makes sense to you.
CONCERNED DAUGHTER OF ZION.
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Sofoluwe Emmanuel

Sofoluwe Emmanuel has been a writer and a reporter since 2015. He is the online editor of Latest Reality and a regular contributor to many lifestyle and leisure print publications. Emmanuel graduated with a Diploma in Accounting and Bachelor of Arts in Mass Communication.

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