What many single guys and ladies don't know is that, there
is a whole lot of difference between single relationship and marriage.
Some of you don't
have anything tangible you are going to do in marriage than to have children.
All the privileges, uniqueness, sacredness, sanctity, enjoyments of marriage,
you are already exploring and enjoying it now in your dating adventure.
Lady, you have turned
yourself to 'iyawo ile' in the 'face me face you' apartment of that guy. You
are his cook, his mom, his bed mate, sex mate, you have moved your loads to his
room one by one. You are all over him, showing desperation.
Dear guy, what exactly are you looking forward to in
marriage? You are behaving to that lady as if you are her husband. You are
tired of her nakedness already. Nothing is exciting you about her again. 'See
finish' is happening between the two of you. If you marry today, what's going
to be a new thing to do as couples? Kissing is not new to the two of you.
Your nakedness is no more new to each other. Lady, nothing
is trilling about your breasts again. You are not yet married, but your breasts
have suffered in the hands of this boy. Yet to breastfeed oo, your breasts are
already looking like that of a grandma.
What is new I asked
you? What sex position or style have you not done together?
May be like this lady in that conversation, the only two
things left for many singles in relationship today is to have children and
fight.
Some of you will see wrong thing that guy/lady is doing that
you don't like, you will keep quiet and bottle your anger.
You won't fight and
sought it out now, you are waiting to get into marriage and then start fighting.
You have enjoyed all
the 'peace ' of marriage in dating, only to get into marriage and start war.
Hear me well dear singles, don't cross some lines, You are
not married until you are married!
Reserve romance, sex, physical intimacy, joint account,
bathing together, wearing the same clothes, and many other things for marriage.
There should be some exciting things you are looking forward to do together as
couples.
Don't do everything you should do in marriage in your
dating/ courtship.
Have self control. Right thing done at a wrong time will
make it a wrong thing!
Thanks for reading. You can share, comment, and like to
bless a single guy/lady around you. Share, don't plagiarize it.
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